DAY 56 IN THE 91-DAY NEW HABIT CHALLENGE! #ProverbsChallenge



Proverbs 25--One of the most embarrassing and sometimes humiliating things we can do is to make a public assumption that is incorrect.

OY! I have been guilty of such a feat of stupidity and I've been the victim of such an accusation. Neither feels real good.


An assumption happens when we're reactive. We see or hear something and react based on what we think is a person's motive. Then we carry that assumption into what we perceive as fact.

Assumption is not discernment. If we actively assume, then our discernment muscle will be weak or inactive all together. It actually impedes our growth.

Once that assumption is public and proved incorrect, how is it any different that gossip? Or worse, lying. 

If we see or hear something that disturbs us, but we don't have proof of motive or action, we can either react or ignore it. Or, we can ask the LORD for His: 
  • wisdom, 
  • knowledge, 
  • discernment, and 
  • understanding. 
  • Seek out counsel and confirmation whether this information is for prayer only, or if further action is necessary.

As someone who has been a perpetrator and victim, this is wise indeed.

May we trust GOD and not just our eyes and ears, my friends.

Proverbs 25:7b-8--What your eyes have seen, do not bring hastily to court, or what will you do afterward, when your neighbor puts you to shame? Tree of Life Bible Society Tree of Life Version - TLV
#tlvbible #tlvproverb

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